Handling a Breakup So You Have a Chance to Get Your Ex Back

Here is some free advice on how to have a chance to get your ex back. You might not be ready to hear it or use it, but it is still excellent advice to have. Dealing with a broken heart can be hard and you may just want to let your emotional wounds heal.

But if you think that there is a chance that getting your ex back is something you will want to do down the road, here are a few things you can do, or not do, in order to make that more likely to happen.

First, remember that whether you were wrong, or your ex was wrong, there are two sides to every story. Would you want to be with a person who lied, cheated, verbally abused you or wrecked your things? I bet that you wouldn't. If you answer that question by saying that those are the things that your ex did to you in the first place, you should ask whether you really want your ex back in the first place.

Past issues aside, you need to learn how to put past issues aside. Forgive and forget is the key to have a chance to get your ex back. If you want to be able to speak with them civilly and not come off as overly dramatic or unpleasant, you need to be able to look at and speak with your ex and not lose control on an emotional or temperamental level. Be pleasant and polite. You want to remind your ex why they were with you in the first place, and not why they broke up with you at the end.

It is a good idea for you think about your behavior and how it may have contributed to the break up. If you cheated on your ex, lied, or verbally or physically abused them, there is a clear reason why they may have left. Unfortunately if there were such huge issues, you may never be able to get them back. But if you are genuinely sorry for your behavior and can show them how you have changed, this may go a long way toward helping the situation.

If it was you that left your ex, they may be angry if you approach them and try to get them back. They may worry that you are going to leave them again or repeat negative behavior. If they left you, you may need to find out what the reason was that caused them to leave. Then, once you have found this out, it is up to you to show that you are changing that behavior and giving them a reason to ask you back.

In order to have a chance to get your ex back, you need to do some serious thinking and you may need to change how you act as well as some of your past behaviors. If you can look at the relationship clearly and realize that there were faults on both sides, then work at improving your actions, you may be able to reunite and enjoy a warm and loving relationship.